Anthony Ogogo officiated at the marriage of her wife and his sister in June. When discussing a video of the ceremony on social networking, he explained it as”one of the proudest moments of my entire lifetime – not to mention among the trendiest.”
Ogogo has appreciated several sporting highs – his victories, a Commonwealth Games silver medal, Olympic bronze . As harm to his eyes compelled him to complete lifetime as a fighter at age 30, there was the reduced of phoning a premature end to his boxing career. Inside his ventures outside the ring – like modelling, appearing Strictly Come Dancing, and participate in reality TV shows – he’s never lacked excitement. Lately, he has expressed interest in moving into both politics and wrestling… not in the exact same time, but he will try to get to grips with anything.
The honour of marrying Joanne into Helen brought him a sense of gratification, special on a different level to his accomplishments as a boxer. Ogogo wanted to have been celebrating gold in London 2012, but also the memory of attracting his medal to show mother Teresa as she put recovering from a brain aneurysm is only one filled with the joy. Family matters better.
From the wedding videohe guides the couple during their marriage vows; he signed off the tweet about his efforts to maintain Helen and Joanne word flawless with a rainbow flag #LoveIsLove, and emojis. However, while the pride of Ogogo was echoed by dozens of replies and likes, there were reactions and some homophobic remarks . The amount of the nastiness riled him particular, hateful threatening.
“If you’re a guy and a man, or a girl and a woman, it is totally irrelevant, and the fact that a number of folks look down on that, it upsets me,” he tells Sky Sports. “It disturbs me. It’s really saddening.”
Lots of folks would proceed, but Ogogo wasn’t ready to let the abuse slip. He called it out and was applauded for being an ally to folks in general, his, as well as his sister. “I’m blown away by the love and support from new and old followers,” he tweeted; that the hundred or so followers that he dropped were swiftly replaced by tens of thousands of fresh ones.
Interest in Ogogo’s stand against homophobia contributed to on ITV’s This Morning show on look to discuss the Twitter misuse, and also the issue of trolling generally. Together with his family, he accepted invites to Pride at London and the parade in Norwich, in which he started the march together with Town Cryer and the Lord Mayor wearing a rainbow cowboy hat. The Ogogos are from Lowestoft on the East Anglian coast; Anthony supports that the Canaries, also formerly played for Norwich City’s youth team.
Soccer has brought the voice of Ogogo on this topic to the fore more. He’ll be discussing LGBT-phobia in its different discriminatory forms at Call Out It 2019, an event this Saturday, being convened from the community of UK LGBT fans groups Pride In Soccer in West Ham’s London Stadium. Supporters and other stakeholders from the sport – especially those affiliated to clubs which do have their own LGBT fans team – are being asked to attend, contribute, and also find out more about taking decisive action is reasonable.
“I am only standing up for what is right,” says Ogogo. He needs more straight allies – in game and elsewhere in society – to stand up too. “I am glad that I can have a small significant effect in this and whatever good I can do for your cause, then excellent.
“People should just learn a tiny bit. It’s not scary. I feel really fortunate that my sister is a lesbian – I have been enlightened by that.
“Joanne was with boys if she was a teen and a young woman. She thought that is what you’ve got to do, and to marry a guy one day, because she had been living a lie and she was pleased.
“Then she had the courage to come out in her entire life and also to say that she was, and be proud of who she had been, and now she’s married to the love of her lifetime – and I’m so happy for her.”
Ogogo says his mom, a single parent, raised him and his sisters to be”receptive” but that there were other relations who reacted negatively into Joanne’s coming outside. “She had a few perhaps not quite supportive comments. There were things said and actions done.” He uses the expression”mini-heroes” to describe her, both Helen and another gay people they understand. “It shows massive levels of bravery and guts to emerge. We get one shot at this point, and we must live it. If that is being with someone who’s the same gender as you, then so be it”
Ogogo married his childhood sweetheart Casey . After he retired from boxing March, he rescued”the largest thank of you ” for his wife. She regularly shared with his heavy burden of”accidents and bad moods”, steadfast amid all the setbacks. “I’m eternally in your debt,” he added in his statement,”and when we lived a thousand lifetimes, I wouldn’t have the ability to show you exactly what you mean to me.”
This is why he is prepared to battle attitudes like those on display in the tweets. He tries to empathise with all the struggles faced by men and women such as his sister. “I have never had those gut-wrenching minutes in which you want to inform your friends but you’re scared so you set it off by a second season. And I feel really fortunate, since it must be really difficult.” He mentions. “He’s frightened of what could occur. I think that’s so sad.”
Attempting to relieve any’discomfort’ among men that are straight in regards to talking about sexuality is one way Ogogo hopes to help. He is quick to play compared to that of LGBT people themselves, but he is conscious that there is a shortage of male alliesin sport. “I think that it’s a small ripple effect but when the simple fact that I’ve got a bit of celebrity behind me personally carries any weight, then wonderful. Boxing’s a game that is very macho and you do not get men saying they’re allies. I am honoured to be called one. It’s quite humbling.”
He recognises too that in some cases, it’s a difficult job to instruct acceptance of gay folks. “I have a few friends, football mates actually, that do not really enjoy it. They kind of sneer their noses up about it – they do not really wish to know. They are stuck in their ways and honestly, I don’t know what it might take for them to change their view.”
So how can you try? “It is just instruction really. They don’t know. A whole lot of this moment, it’s ignorance. Now that may be deliberate – . But it’s not’bad’. Anyone does not hurt – .
“I woke up when I was a kid, and I fancied Katy Hill from Blue Peter. Nobody taught me how to do this. It’s innate. You can not choose who you are drawn to, so why should you be punished, reprimanded, or looked down upon by society”
The increase in discrimination, fuelled by media, is from the soccer headlines these days. Ogogo doesn’t feel targeted but insists that’s not an excuse to sit out one. “I have never had some negative experiences. I believe I’m quite a wonderful bloke, and I believe everyone ought to be nicer to each other. Some folks may say that is somewhat naive but I live by the belief that in case you show me respect, I’ll show you appreciation.”
He also wishes to demonstrate his appreciation. “I could massively praise the LGBT community, for being so united and supportive of one another. I got a great deal of love, not only from gay or trans individuals, but from folks normally, only for sticking to what I think.” With this battle, Ogogo’s firmly in their own corner.
‘Call out it 2019: A agenda for activity on LGBTphobia at Football’ has been held on Saturday in the London Arena. The event consists of a programme of workshops, panels and media and is open to other stakeholders and enthusiasts. Register to attend here.
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